Dear Jenny,

He has disrespected and violated me on numerous levels, these are only a few of the things he has done, or the major ones at least

he has no self love or virtue and lies so much and hides things.

After forgiving him over and over I am so confused now. I am a mother of two and I want what is best for my daughters

In my mind, the situation is clear: he is bad news, a drug addict, potential cheater and definitely a liar. And he isn’t showing any signs of improving. If you want the best for yourself and your daughters, leave him. You don’t want to keep entangled with such a man.

The fact that he helps you financially shouldn’t be a reason to stay, because being in such a relationship can only harm both you and your daughters on the long run. I hope you can find ways to support yourself without his help, and can let him go.

Wishing you strength and determination!

find someone who will not cheat on you . i may not have the best relationship , But i may not be the best gf either. but despite all of our flaws, he does not cheat on me and that is the best thing ever, ppl in this age don’t really do that ,   i don’t know f what we have is unique , but i know that it is not an option for me ever again to be with someone that i would have to question or doubt if they were with someone else. plus stds have made a major comeback in California, that is unforgivable. don’t be that girl that had all the red flags she needed to move on , but ends up with a disease that could have been avoided had she just moved on. it is so hard  to le go but dude , you aren’t happy a now are you?   read up on attachment styles for some insight on why you attach the way you do and maybe help see it before it happens, and hopefully make better decisions on who it is you spend your time on. – in short f$%k that guy ,work on being someone who would attract the kind of dude you want to be with (not that you are not great already ) you will find better… plus u jabe 2 girls, maybe just try to focus on helping them be normal by adulthood,  our whole country has gone crazy, that willno doubt have an effect on them , if you can mnimize the crazy outside world im sure they will appreciate it  when they are your age.