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  • January 19, 2017 at 3:44 am #125712
    abc123
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    I am also in similar situation. I am married twice. First husband meet with an accident after an year of marriage. Had son with him. After 9yrs got married again and saw literally hell with that husband. He himself left me went taking all my money after an year. But didn’t go for divorce yet. I Went in severe depression. My colleague who is 3yrs younger than me, knowing all my story proposed me. He was so caring, loving n used to support me in all. I too fell in love with him. We use to be more than a wife and husband for 3yrs. From 6months he is forced by his parents for marrying other girl. V both can’t live without each other. I am crying, shouting, fighting and pleading him to stay. He is also telling he will be with me life long though he marries other girl as he has all feelings only with me. He is boozing daily as he is not willing for marriage. I don’t know how to react. I am not able to accept the fact. My life is looking dark. Unable to concentrate on my work, soon and myself. Please help

    January 19, 2017 at 4:45 am #125713
    Inky
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    Hi roxin,

    I love how when men break up with someone they imagine the girl pining away for them. Then they are genuinely surprised when she moves on or sleeps with someone before they do. You know in your heart that he only slept with some random girl so he could be “even”. He could literally have slept with anyone. Draw a name out of a hat. If it was a female over the age of eighteen he would have gone for it.

    It didn’t mean anything. Believe me.

    My advice: No matter how you feel, and no matter how he feels.. Even if you two have all the feels at the same time.. For your sanity and even his, have the rest of 2017 parade on without him. When (yes, when) he contacts you, even if it’s to say “I was wrong. And lucky girl ~ I’ve magnanimously decided to let you be my girlfriend again!” YOU say: “Hold that thought. Let’s talk about that this time next year.”

    That is enough time for him to appreciate you. And the price he must pay, IMHO.

    Blessings,

    Inky

    January 19, 2017 at 10:49 am #125732
    Anonymous
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    * Dear abc123: this thread belongs to the Original Poster (OP): roxin. To start your own thread, click FORUMS, choose a CATEGORY, RELATIONSHIPS, I believe, then click Relationships, scroll down the page and post there. You can copy your above post and paste it there.

    Dear roxin:

    He was your best friend for a while but you fought a lot, at least at some point onward, and he wanted his freedom, you wrote- freedom from fighting?

    anita

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