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    I’m 33, have a degree in elementary education and left teaching after 5 years because I burned out. I won’t get into all of that, but when I entered the teaching profession I assumed I would retire from it. Needless to say I have been super cautious about choosing another career for fear of repeating the same process.

    I’ve done a lot of research and I decided on nursing. Pros- I want to help people, flexibility, good pay, always learning, only need to take about 8 classes to earn RN. Cons- I’m an introvert, no one in my family has ever pursued any type of health-related career, squeamish, worried sick about making a mistake and harming someone, afraid I’ll end up hating nursing.

    I gravitated towards social work for a long time but many sources seem to indicate that the low pay and possible inability to find a job does not warrant the masters degree required to land most social work jobs.

    About 6 months to a year ago I realized that my dream job would be to train service dogs, own a doggie daycare, or any job revolving around dogs. It doesn’t seem lucrative though (especially where I currently live), more of a hobby or something I can start on the side and supplement with my nursing income.

    So, should I continue to pursue nursing and use it to fund my dreams? I think I may grow to really love nursing, but I get so anxious about things that I could be tinging nursing with my negative thoughts and worries right from the start. I’d love to just hit the ground running with a dog-related business, but finances will not allow that, nor do I want to start a business here (unless it doesn’t require renting space). I plan on moving in 3-5 years when my husband finishes school.

    #64526
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    Very interesting! I am a teacher as well, and it has not turned out to be what I expected or wished for. I believe that I also chose it as a second career to be there for my children. So now, at the age of 42, I feel lost. I have always had a love for animals too – wildlife in particular, and I love my 3 dogs. The idea you mentioned of a dog-related business is a great one! Here in Canada, pet-related businesses are on the rise and people make good money. Doggie daycares are very popular and I have also thought the same thing as you, going into business with animals. But that demands money and right now, I am not able to do it. I also thought of going into psychology or human resources, but it would be another ‘institutionalized’ career that I don’t handle very well. I hope that you are able to make your wishes come true! We only have one life right?

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    Hi Marie-France! Thank you so much for responding! I’m sorry to hear that you are dissatisfied with teaching as well. I loved the kids and I miss them, but I feel so much more peaceful having left.

    I sometimes think that we are meant to go on many different paths, and that it was unrealistic for me to think that I would be in the same field my entire life. I think few stay in the same career throughout their entire lives these days.

    Would dog walking help you move towards an animal-based career? I have thought about doing that on the side here until I could possibly live off the income, but unfortunately my town is not animal friendly (I hope to move within 3-5 years if all goes as planned).

    Social work would be my next choice, but I’ve heard so many cons about it lately.

    I am just tired of the roller coaster more than anything. One day I’ll feel confident about pursuing nursing and the next day my anxiety will get the best of me.

    I’m looking into guided meditations for beginners at the moment!

    Thanks again and I hope that you are able to follow your dreams as well! 🙂

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