Can't choose between an ex and a new guy

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February 9, 2022 at 6:40 am #392524

natalee
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“natalee” it is okay. and thank you very much and yes i will not. i may have a STD, idk, but will find out. and thank you very much, i will try to when i am 18.

February 9, 2022 at 6:54 am #392525

Anonymous
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Dear natalee:

You are welcome. Get checked out for a possible STD then. Regarding “I will try when I am 18“, Yoda (Star Wars) said: “Do. Or do not. There is no try“!

anita

February 10, 2022 at 6:34 pm #392559

natalee
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haha funny you say yoda. I love star wars, he is my 2nd fav, while darth vader is my first, but anyways. I will for sure

February 10, 2022 at 7:44 pm #392560

Anonymous
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Dear natalee:

I am glad that you liked my reference to Yoda. You say Darth Vader is your first fav. Here is a Darth Vader quote: “Be careful not to choke on your aspirations“. A synonym to aspiration is desire, and the quote, to me, means that when a person desires something too intensely, he/ she gets caught up in a desire, becoming singularly focused on fulfilling it without seeing the bigger picture, and what results is a disaster- the person choking.

Another saying comes to mind as the cure for such choking: Everything in Moderation.

anita

February 15, 2022 at 7:20 am #392785

natalee
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Yes haha and I love that quote. So, what if I said me and my ex had another one night stand , mhmmm?

February 15, 2022 at 8:17 am #392786

Anonymous
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Dear natalee:

“So, what if I said me and my ex had another one night stand , mhmmm?” –

– You said it. And I say: I don’t like your mhmmm attitude about having casual sex and risking pregnancy and STDs, frankly, your attitude disgusts me.

Here is your mhmmm attitude in your words February 2022: “I am single and have been for a while, just one night stands with my ex like 3 times, and the problem is, he is is good at it, but like yeah which is okay… we had anal, and i thought i was due to like gaining 6 pounds and increase urination, but i had my period… so lol…i thought i was pregnant… i may have a STD, idk, but will find out“.

We communicated August 19, 2021- February 15, 2022, page 2-7 of this thread. I gave you all the input I can possibly give you and I have nothing more. You are welcome to read our communication and take notes. This is my last post to you, there will be no other. Goodbye, natalee, I wish you well!

anita

February 15, 2022 at 10:35 am #392794

natalee
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i was just saying it, we actually did not do it. that hurt my feelings, he asked me but i said no, but okay. that was very rude.

February 16, 2022 at 6:58 am #392820

natalee
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and i think it is weird you spend your time texting a teenage girl.

February 16, 2022 at 7:29 am #392821

Anonymous
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Dear Reader:

There has been no communication between me and the member who posted right above outside this thread, pages 2-7. There has never been an exchange of emails, phone numbers, or social media. Again, the only communication between me and this member has been here, on this one thread.

I have no idea if the member is male or female or what age he or she is, as anyone can claim to be of any gender, any age etc. If this member chooses to further harass me, I will seek help so to stop future harassment.

anita

February 16, 2022 at 7:31 pm #392881

natalee
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i know, i did not mean it, i just needed you to tal

February 16, 2022 at 7:31 pm #392882

natalee
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i think you have helped me and your a really cool guy

March 16, 2022 at 8:46 am #395332

natalee
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i know you are mad at me, but i need adviceeeeee

May 9, 2022 at 11:45 am #399819

Clarissa
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Summary. My ex is the love of my life. I hit it off with another boy straight away. Sure. Sarcasm. Your ex is the love of your life.

March 3, 2024 at 6:46 pm #428334

Anonymous
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I’m in a really similar situation. I was wondering what you decided to do?

March 3, 2024 at 7:18 pm #428339

anita
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Dear Ann: the last time the OP posted on the forums was in May 2019. I hope she replies to you. If you’d like to share about your situation, you are welcome to do so, and I will reply.

anita
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