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    Eliana
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    Hi Rox,

    I remember your earlier e-mails about him,,about the beautiful way he was toward you. I do think it is wrong after only 4 months of dating that someone tells you “you are the love of their life” because then you see a “happily ever after” with them, and I felt he led you on with false hope way too soon in the relationship.

    I would say, he wants to move on. There is nothing more you can do or say. I don’t think at this point, while you are emotionally charged, that being “friends” with him is a good idea, as he has made it clear, no chances of getting back together. I would just take this time to work on yourself, emotional outbursts, etc, so it does not get in the way of a future relationship. I was hoping he would think you are getting some help with emotional issues and try to reconcile, but for whatever reason, he seems to want to move on. I would not contact him anymore, as this will only provide further disappointment for you. I’m so sorry about all this. I know how much you loved him.

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    Inky
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    Hi Rox,

    I mean, how bad were the emotional outbursts? If it was REALLY bad, then clearly that spooked him. But if you dared expressed displeasure then it’s good that he is gone. Why are women always the ones on audition for the guy? Why is it that the minute we express contrary opinions or emotions we are labelled “crazy” or worse?

    I’m not saying that you should be abusive in your reactions to things. As long as you honor your feelings while honoring the people around you (or at least not dishonoring them) then you are fine.

    Leave him alone. View him as a starter boyfriend until someone stronger comes along.

    Best,

    Inky

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