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  • October 28, 2018 at 10:21 am #233869
    Inky
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    Hi mallllh,

    If the changes are less than a year old, then they may very well be surface-y changes.

    But when it’s say, three years later, then hopefully those changes in behavior have become a good habit that he will have internalized.

    Hope that helps!

    Inky

    October 28, 2018 at 10:29 am #233871
    Feathering my nest
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    I agree with Inky.

    Positive reinforcement towards your partner, hopefully these changes will stick around 😀

    October 29, 2018 at 8:43 am #234293
    Anonymous
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    Dear malllh:

    My suggestion is: make sure you change what you need to change in your own behavior. Be gentle with yourself and patient with the process of making lasting change. Be gentle with him as well, and patient, as long as the two of you are sincerely committed to changing what each of you needs to or should change.

    anita

     

    October 30, 2018 at 8:16 am #234465
    Nilufer
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    I have my relationship now for 9 months and we broke up twice because he has a fear of having a relationship. He had quite bad experiences and had no trust in woman anymore. After our latest breakup he realised that he has to change his attidute toward a relationship or he will lose me . Of course he can”t change from one minute to another . But  I think even starting and even wanting to change is a big step.I believe that he will be able to change … he has lots of wounds to heal.

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