I wonder if you were qualified now and could go with him now, would he want you to go with him or would he choose to go alone. I would say the answer to that question would help you know the right course of action.

Dear Emma:

It is possible that his motivation when he asked you to  be  his girlfriend was to have a physically and romantic short term relationship with you, one with a pre-established  due  date.

“When I asked about how having a girlfriend would affect his move to Australia, He told me at that time that  ‘plans can  be moved’. I never  questioned it and we never spoke about  it until yesterday”-

when  he  told you that he  may not move to Australia because of  the beginning  relationship with you,  he may have  lied,  so that you will agree to the  few-months-relationship.

This was my thought when I first read your thread a few hours ago,  but then  I thought to myself: why should  I bring  this up, it will only make you feel bad, if you consider it, or if you already considered you, it will make you feel badly to be reminded of this possibility.

Do you think it  is a bad idea that I brought up this possibility to you?

anita