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  • June 21, 2014 at 8:20 am #59308
    prestozer
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    I have known this woman for about 6 months and still not yet made my move. Initially I let things take their own course and tried creating a bond with her. The only problem is sometimes my emotions got in the way and I became a nice guy to her. I even sensed signs of being friend zoned so I tried flirting with her more but it did not work as she confirmed to me she had friend zoned me. I stopped seeing her and greatly reduced my interactions with her to a point she started complaining of me ignoring her. I decided to meet her after close to a month without seeing her and she was all over me when together. I want to part ways a manner that she misses me and thinks of me more, or if she decides to go it would mean that we would never be an item anyway. Is this the right way or should I just confess my feelings for her (that would be awkward considering how she reacted to me flirting some time back)
    Please help

    June 21, 2014 at 8:01 pm #59328
    @Jasmine-3
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    My dear Prestozer

    Thanks for putting a smile on my face with your query 🙂

    In return, I would like to ask you if I should have curry today or pasta ? Which is the right one for me ? Or perhaps, should I wear a purple dress or a black one ?

    Hey, it is your life. You propose when you want to and how you want to and to whom you want to. What is bugging you ? She will either say yes or she will say no. Either way, it will be fine. If she says yes, you guys have a great relationship and move forward in life. If she says no, you get to move forward in life and find someone else 🙂

    Life aint that hard mate. Keep it simple and you will not need to spend your energy unnecessarily.

    May you find the courage to move forward,

    Blessings,

    Jasmine

    June 22, 2014 at 4:39 am #59341
    Inky
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    You could go on one of those How to Pick up Chicks type websites, and say all the right lines and do all the prescribed things, and still not get this girl. On the flip side, you could have a girl yelling, “TAKE ME NOW!!”, naked on a bike and you would miss the signals and take the bike. 🙂

    It’s hard to be a perfectionist in relationships. Everyone is each so different! Including you!

    It sounds like this girl friend zoned you but saw signs you weren’t interested, and she freaked out a little that even her Just a Friend friend didn’t want her. Me, myself and I would do this Let ‘Em Loose, Reel ‘Em In game for a while, as that’s what she seems to like. Then ask her out. If she says No, Game Over.

    Don’t take relationship stuff personally if she says no. Keep it Light. Save the emotional energy for the Real Deal.

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