Dear Lily:

Until you get more insight and learn you have the right to assert yourself and learn to do that- avoid aggressive men like the plague- until you heal, aggressive men will take advantage of you. You are easy prey for a man who is sexually aggressive and unconscionably pushes your buttons of guilt, as if you are guilty for his wrong behavior against you! Outrageous.

Avoid aggressive men like the plague.

anita

Dear Lily:

You are very welcome, Lily. Unfortunately for me, I have experience with sexually aggressive men, very much like the one you described. I am from a country in the Middle East myself, with men from that culture you describe. I know the kind and it saddens me that you met this guy and suffer his aggression. It is not okay and it is not right. I too was not strong enough, didn’t know I have the right to protect myself. I too was desperate and didn’t know … what, how..

My best advice to you is, again, run from such men. They are no match to you. Not at this point. With non aggressive men, decent men, you will be okay but not with this kind.

Post anytime.

anita