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  • August 9, 2018 at 8:10 pm #220931
    Prash
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    Dear Sarah,

    No one is a mess of a person. Various situations and circumstances make us feel like that. You have been told these kind of things – not good enough, not presentable, nobody worth meeting, etc – by someone else early on in your life and you probably have believed it and repeated it to yourself several times over.

    First things to be done I believe is for you to seek help for your most glaring issues – the bonus info that you were talking about. Take it one step at a time, be kind to yourself and you will be on your way to what you truly want for yourself.

    Take care.

    August 10, 2018 at 11:33 am #221059
    Anonymous
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    Dear sarah:

    You wrote that you feel “like I’ve done everyone a disservice for being who I am” and that you put yourself in situations where you are used for sex.

    My input: you are not here on this earth to be of service to others, to be used.

    You wrote: “I can stand myself when i’m alone but the thought of being around people is mortifying”.

    My input: it wouldn’t be mortifying being around another person if you believed you were not there for him or her to use you. If you believed, and it was true, that the other person was for you, on your side, interested in your well-being.

    In the context of this thread, please be who you are, share, express. I will treat you empathetically and respectfully, having your well-being on my mind.

    anita

     

     

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