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  • November 24, 2021 at 2:02 pm #389002
    Anonymous
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    Dear Sierra:

    What a delight to read from you again, three years and 6 days since you last posted, on Nov 18, 2018.

    “My worries include: he’s losing interest and that if we don’t talk he’s gonna forget about me. I worry that he won’t ask me on that third date…I want to learn the art of letting go, of things be“-

    – art requires being calm enough to produce it, to not be gripped by fear. To let go of the fear that he is losing interest in you, that he will forget about you, that he will not ask you for a third date- you have to believe that you will be okay if he loses interest in you, if he forgets you and if he does not ask you for a third date. After all, if he forgets you, it doesn’t mean that you no longer exist, does it?

    anita

    November 24, 2021 at 4:00 pm #389005
    Sisi
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    Hello anita! Long time no see!

    I am working on calming myself actually. I’ve been incorporating more meditation in my routine and it honestly leaves me feeling more level headed.

    Haha that’s very true, i’ll still be here and living a full like, however i tend to forget that i was living fine without this person before.

    Ive maybe fallen for the idea of a relationship that i fixate on a goal that may or may not happen…

    sisi

    November 24, 2021 at 4:11 pm #389006
    Anonymous
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    Dear Sisi:

    Are you and Sierra the same member? If so, why different accounts?

    anita

     

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