Hi Clayton,

The reality is that statistically you ARE going to lose her after college. Most people don’t marry their college sweetheart. It takes having at least a couple serious relationships before you end up marrying. Statistically speaking.

Now, you could very well be one of the few that do end up marrying the college sweetheart. In every class there’s always a few that do.

But instead of fearing the probable, use that knowledge of statistics to give yourself permission to totally live in the present and love fearlessly and fully. Don’t lose anymore precious time living in worry.

Best,

Inky

Hi Clayton,

Your relationship sounds so pure and wonderful from how you describe it. I know that when you think the the world of someone they become your entire world. As great of a thing as it may feel it can also feel scary if your world were to collapse. However, what you have to realize is that, if you were to lose her, you’ll be okay, even though you may not feel like it. And she’ll be okay too. It’s sad to think about it but it’s also relieving because what’s truly meant for you will find its way to you. But that hasn’t happened yet. So I say, enjoy yourself and take each day one day at a time. Don’t worry about it until it happens. If it does, then she wasn’t for you. Maybe bring some of the focus back on yourself, your hobbies, your skills, your friends. Realize that if she isn’t there anymore you’ll still have all these amazing things waiting for you!

Let me know if you need someone to talk to,

Marie

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