Hi Inky,
it took a lot of courage to finally say “that’s it im done with the bs,” but the toxicity was literally killing my soul and my spirit. Emotionally I just couldn’t do it anymore so I really had no other option then to just do it. The rest, money, job, permanent place to live, I’m with my dd right now , will all come in time and work itself out and I let spirit guide me to my path. 🙂