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May 24, 2017 at 6:24 pm #150582
sylvieParticipanta few months back i posted here and being confused and after some research understanding that my boyfriend if not narcissist we were definetley toxic to me…well i finally got pissed off enought to say no more bs, im done with this i want and deserve better and moved out…
May 24, 2017 at 8:42 pm #150608
AnonymousGuestDear Sylvie:
Thank you for the update. Congratulations for moving out! I hope you post again with more updates, your thoughts and feelings.
anita
May 25, 2017 at 4:53 am #150636
InkyParticipantHi Sylvie,
Congratulations! I give you a virtual housewarming gift: **An amazing blessing of your choice!** 😀
You have done what many people are afraid to do! Your life will in the long run be SO much better! And best of all? The strength you displayed and the vibe that goes with it will be an attractant to the best people and a repellant to the worst people!
Congrats Again!
Inky
May 25, 2017 at 5:34 am #150638
sylvieParticipantHi Anita,
My feelings range from sadness, fear, excitement, happiness , hope…but getting more and more positive every day..Doing a lot of work on myself and healing and getting to know myself much more
May 25, 2017 at 5:42 am #150640
sylvieParticipantHi Inky,
it took a lot of courage to finally say “that’s it im done with the bs,” but the toxicity was literally killing my soul and my spirit. Emotionally I just couldn’t do it anymore so I really had no other option then to just do it. The rest, money, job, permanent place to live, I’m with my dd right now , will all come in time and work itself out and I let spirit guide me to my path. 🙂
May 25, 2017 at 6:42 am #150652
AnonymousGuestDear Sylvie:
Feel free to share here about the work you do on yourself, the healing and getting to know yourself much more. This is an exciting and most meaningful journey, not without difficulties and challenges. When feeling sadness and fear, don’t give up. There are messages in those feelings, and if you find those messages, you will get to know yourself better.
anita
May 31, 2017 at 12:50 pm #151416
AmberParticipantSylvie,
I also was involved with a narcissist or sociopath. We were married for 8 years and together for almost 12. He was an extremely toxic person to be involved with and literally had my life in turmoil. It was the best thing you could of ever done and you will be thankful once you finally see how much they affect your life. Everything you are worried about will work itself out. You just have to keep faith and know that everything happens for a reason. There was a reason you met this person and there was a reason you built up the courage to get away. Good luck to you in your journey!
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