Hi Rox,

I don’t think you have anything to be worried about. Many men, even when they are with other women will glance at a beautiful women. Many times (like myself) even when I am on a date or with a boyfriend, I will glance or notice a very handsome man. It is part of human nature to appreciate beauty in others. We have to be secure enough in our own uniqueness and beauty, because that man is with us, and not that other women. Of it is just a quick glance, that is one thing, but if it openly staring, ogglung or flirting that is unnaceptable and disrespectful. Sometimes when I am with a boyfriend, and I see him glance at a beautiful woman, I will say “she is beautiful isn’t she? It is perfectly normal. As long as he is not talking or flirting with them, remember he chose you for your beauty and amazing qualities.

As far as Facebook, it’s just “friends”. People like to “add” friends all the time. It is harmless. Many of these people have hundreds of “followers” and probably talk to 20-30 people per day or like each other’s pictures. I would not go on his profile page if it bothers you, because it will only make you miserable. Remember, it’s just social media, words on a page. All harmless. I doubt he is sending any kissing emoji’s to these women. Try to relax and be happy with him. x

• This reply was modified 7 years, 6 months ago by Eliana.