A single mother’s journey

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August 9, 2014 at 9:21 pm #62960

zaica
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hi S!.. thank you..:)
they are just angry after whaat happened that he chose to stay with his family instead of coming with us…they said it seems that he doesn’t respect me.. actually, that day that i had a fight with my inlaws, he told me to pack my bags and leave… he said he was sorry.. but my family and friends cant really accept what he did.. they’re really angry at him.. im confused too.. why they are so angry.. but i was able to forgive my husband after we talked about it..
wow.. you amaze me.. to manage all that on your own..:).. a friend of mine told me that maybe i tend to be bullied much coz im not used to rude people in my life..i grew up as a pampered kid with almost all my wants and needs given to me immediately..im not used being around people who doesn’t like me.. :).. well.. that’s what she said..so i guess, this job that im applying for… this is my first step on my own…and i really want to do it right this time..i guess you’re right.. my family still sees me as their little girl.. to be protected always..

August 10, 2014 at 11:23 am #62986

Dillo
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Sat Nam,
Through a series of enlightening events, I became a single parent before my son was even born. I felt a lot of anger and regret at having been placed in this situation, and at having placed my son in this situation. I have since come to terms with my responsibility in the way the situation played out and I am much more at peace with the way things are for us. In your original post you had said you wondered if this was some karmic action against you for previous mistakes. What I have found, and what I hope will touch your situation in some way, is that everything that took place during my pregnancy and in my son’s early life is already a part of his beautiful story, and that these events help shape the person he is becoming. I believe that my son is a beautiful, powerful person meant for nothing less than greatness, and me being a strong single mother is an important part of his story. So perhaps the karma involved here is great karma for your two wonderful boys, not a punishment for the lessons you are learning. Love knows nothing but love. You are a strong, beautiful soul and your boys will reap nothing but great things from that.

August 11, 2014 at 8:49 pm #63143

Sat Nam
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Hi Zaica, yeah I get it. Family and friends don’t easily forget what is done to you because they don’t have an emotional attachment to our partners. But if they truly love you they will be there for you no matter what you choose to do. You are doing just great, that first step will liberate you. Next time we chat it will be you telling me about your new job. Yay!

August 11, 2014 at 8:58 pm #63144

Sat Nam
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Hi Dillo, first of all I love how you phrased that “through a series of enlightening events.” Your post is so enriching on many levels, thank you, thank you, thank you! I do get angry sometimes but I will read and re read as many times as needed to understand this is a beautiful part of their story and they are meant for nothing else but greatness. I should be more careful as to the way I view this situation when I am feeling weak. Lots of love to you and your son, again thank you for your strength and wisdom. Besos!

March 9, 2024 at 11:06 am #428518

Dispa
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Hi, i was searching the internet and came accros this. 2014 for you, for me it happened now (almost) 2023. Im 29 and was betrayed by a man i met shortly. My child turns 1 year old soon

Wondering how you are now and if you will ever recievr this

March 9, 2024 at 11:42 am #428524

anita
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Dear Dispa:

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anita
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