Dear rrangel:

Your story depicts a despicable, aggressive, dishonest woman doctor who took advantage of you, threatening you and your mother, for financial benefit and she succeeded in doing that.

Your mother, in turn, submitted to that woman, paying her money on top of the money already spent financing that woman’s husband. And then, your mother believed that woman’s lies, turning against you and calling you names. She doesn’t like your boyfriend and is harassing you over that relationship.

You did the right thing to move away from Honduras, away from that woman and the people she turned against you. Next right thing for you to do, it seems to me, is to move away from your mother. Maybe join your boyfriend who is supportive of you, join him in his location…?

anita

Dear rrangel:

You are welcome. Your plan to move together with your supportive boyfriend, to another city in Brazil or to his country, sounds good to me. You need support, not enemies. As long as your mother is hurting you, as long as anyone is hurting you, the right thing is to move away from that person.

Hope your yoga provides you with relief. Post anytime.

anita

Thank you, rrangel. Post anytime.
anita