Posts tagged with “Peace”

5 Reasons to Forgive Yourself and How to Do Better Going Forward
âAt the end of life, the wish to be forgiven is ultimately the chief desire of almost every human being. In refusing to wait; in extending forgiveness to others now; we begin the long journey of becoming the person who will be large enough, able enough and generous enough to receive, at the very end, that absolution ourselves.â ~David Whyte
The last time I saw my mother she was smiling and laughing at nothing in particular. My mother has had dementia for almost ten years now. Each visit brings an onslaught of guilt and uncomfortable feelings. Could I have …

5 Ways to Find Peace: Life Lessons from an 8th Grade Teacher
âLife is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.â ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Good Morning, and welcome to 8th grade History with Mr. Bacchus. The first thing I need everyone to do is to take out your class schedule and make sure that it says Mr. Bacchus for this period. Is there anyone who doesnât have my name on their schedule?
No? We sure? Great!!
Now I need each one of you to take a moment and thank whoever you believe in, the powers that be, or even the magic genie that granted you this wish, because …

5 Breathing Techniques to Melt Your Stress Away
âFeelings come and go like clouds in the sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.â ~Thich Nhat Hanh
Breathing techniques are now such an important part of my daily routine. I couldnât think of starting a day without doing my breathing exercises.
I usually combine these with my morning meditation, which, through sheer perseverance, I have made into a habit and have been doing for the last few years.
Almost everywhere you look, you can find stressâat work, at home, on the road. Itâs hard to avoid it and even harder to not get sucked in.
I used to let …

How to Instantly Calm Yourself in Stressful Situations
âBetween stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.â ~Viktor Frankl
Thereâs a big lie we tell ourselves during stressful times.
It keeps us feeling lost, afraid, and unloved, like weâre being picked up and carried away helplessly by a storm.
Our heads can fill with scary images, words, and stories about the cause and who is to blame for our unwanted pain.
Sound familiar? If it does, youâre not alone. Youâre normal. This is how humans biologically respond to stress.…

8 Meditation Mistakes to Avoid if You Want to Feel Calm and Peaceful
âThree things you cannot recover in life: the word after itâs said, the moment after itâs missed, and the time after itâs gone.â ~Unknown
Do you meditate?
I do. I come from a Buddhist family, and meditation is like an heirloom to me.
I didnât start meditating until I was an adult. But when I did, I meditated diligently. From forming a meditation habit to getting the latest meditation app, Iâve done it all.
And one day I got a little worried.
I didnât feel much difference. I didnât feel calm and peaceful like I was supposed to feel.…

How to Find Lasting Peace (Even When You’re in an Emotional Tornado)
âYou can find peace amidst the storms that threaten you.â ~Joseph B. Wirthlin
Does your mind ever feel like a tornado of whirling thoughts?
And when that happens, do you wish for inner peace?
Well, not too long ago, after I quit my corporate job, I was stuck in that exact position. I realized that the degrees I earned and the jobs I chose made me miserable.
My inner chatter became unbearable, and my self-sabotaging, pestering thoughts sparked anxiety attacks, jitters, and nightmares. That forced me to go into therapy.
But even after a year of professional help, …