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  • #414487
    William Shen
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    Dear Anita

    Much appreciated I’ll definitely check it out

    #414482
    William Shen
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    Dear Anita

    No I am unfamiliar with this concept

    #414480
    William Shen
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    Dear Anita,

    Thats exactly what it is I have a craving for intimacy but this craving is causing suffering and I don’t know how to get rid of it.

    #414475
    William Shen
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    Dear Helcat

    I suppose that is true as we don’t really know each other that well. my problem is that it’s hard for me to accept it because I’m unable to rationalize it in my mind

    #414474
    William Shen
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    Dear anita.

    I would want to try therapy but it tends to be quite expensive and I’m a university student so it’s out of my budget. I think the problem is that I didn’t have a lot of intamacy as a child and my parents love always seemed conditional to me.

     

    #414468
    William Shen
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    Dear Anita

    That seems like a good plan. I don’t understand how to even do those steps though. I understand the problem to a degree but I’m unsure of how to fix them

     

     

     

     

    #414466
    William Shen
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    Dear Anita

    That does make sense. I suppose my biggest problem is caring to much and being to invested even tho realistically there is no relationship. I emotionally atttch too easily

    #414464
    William Shen
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    It’s possible as that seems to be the nature of online dating. I suppose I’d just feel disappointed as I thought I made a good first impression. I’d also feel that it would be unfair as she barely knows me, but I don’t feel any spite as that scenario is common in online dating and I’m able to understand it.

     

     

    #414462
    William Shen
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    Hi Helcat

    I would say it’s not common for me to find someone in compatible with, but her personality and mine matched well so I thought that she could have been compatible. I think the part that made me hurt and confused was that in my own mind I thought the date went really well and she’d like to have a second since we were laughing the whole time and had good conversation. Furthermore she hinted at a second date as she was talking about a sushi place and said that she’d take me one day.

     

     

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