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  • in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #360899
    Thondit
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    Update again to everyone in this forum. 

    My condolences to the family,  I had married in years 🔙.

    We have been in the mourning time since from the month of June where my father-in-law passed away due to the pandemic and some other diseases which lead to his death. When I heard of his death,  I didn’t hesitate at all. I went to their house to comfort them and give them my support since had stood up with me from very beginning.

    Thou my father-in-law passed away, things become complicated in his house,,,,,,…..

    I tried harder to makes sure I was not bad person as they may think.  To the surprised our president Salva Kiir,  announced that anyone who has been killed by corona virus should not be taken to his/her village by the plane.

    However,  they were all devastated on how they will handle the human remained (dead body).  To their surprise I wrote a letter to Mr. President,  telling him….  Hello my President I understand you had already made your degree that “nobody should be taken again ” but my president,,,,,  I’m Gregory,  who is a young pilot and work as well in South Sudan Civil Aviation Authority (SSCAA), in aviation industry. Sir would you mind to allow me to take the body of my father-in-law to the village?  I’m the one flying the aircraft and I’m ready for the risk,  if the corona virus,  catch me,  let it be.

    The good news was that my president granted me to take him his village where he was born,  that took a ✈ flight of 3hrs and a drive of 16hours.

    Anita and Inky,  as well as Jay Jay,  I did this because of my son whom I had with their daughter,,,,,,  though my mother in-laws was not happy with my estrange wife,  who happened to attack me during the funeral day which she end up being beated by his uncle son.

    I contributed my money and one bull to be slaughtered.

    My father in-laws passed away on 4th of June.

    Now at the current state all of my closest famililies in-laws appreciated me for the good thing I did for them.

    They all sat down and made a meeting and hence they came out with they decision that I should be given another new girl a part from my estrange wife,,,,,,,,  so that she can be the one taking cared of her sister son Christopher Agoth Gregory. Which I told them no no, and I’m okay to myself and I will marry another gal when time come again.

    My best wishes,,,,,  stay tuned all.

    in reply to: Social Media #360897
    Thondit
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    Keep yourself calm things will work themselves out God is in control.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #338476
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks so much from your vital point concerning my prolonged case that has took some couples of years.

    I do believe that where there’s a problem, acts of God come in. I wasn’t knowing that they were worst like cancer. My father in law with his family will one day say sorry. I had faced a lots of difficulties things through out my life and I do managed to overcome them.

    Yes my son, is doing well Anita, and he is currently live in Uganda – Kampala , ever since last year I took away from them.

    I’m also safe and I think nothing will ever happened from our side.

    Due to such evil acts of their wrong doing, they never heard where my son is! Neither posted on Facebook.

    I know that in the long ran they will be like to look for my son just to see him but never it will happen again.

    Anita, I’m taking cared of my only son Agoth, though we stayed separately a part. Due to lives plans. I have the ability and able to challenge them amicably without any shadow of doubt. Soon enough they will run away.

    Thanks once again for the supportive advice.

    Anyone who will contribute to like Anita, I will be highly honored and appreciative.

    Regards.

    Gregory

     

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #338404
    Thondit
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    Hello everyone at tiny Buddha community. Case is still under my way. 

    I trust you are keeping well. I’m also fine at the at moment.  I’m in Amsterdam at present and the horrible thing come up like nightmare. I can’t imagine and believe that my father in-law would invold himself in the issues of her wife /daughter. I received a phone that he had taken a decision to be on the side of his daughter. This is un acceptable very terrain and weird moment.

    I can’t believe that you human capabilities and their limitations are wicky. This unbelievable issues. People say don’t trust anyone. I told him I left your daughter (my wife) last year and I am proceeding with my life. Why again looking for me?

    God must crazy, why did he connected with such heartless in my life. This man called Akol (father in law) used to say I will stand with you all the times and I will never CHANGED MY WORDS but now he is the most enemy I ever had. I have never locked my horns with big people but I’m ready to do so. If he is out from his neutralize centerline then I will keep up my head and pull a rope with any of them.

    This is people are selfish and self-centered. They have no any test understanding at all.

    They all don’t mind about the baby I had between them. I left them everything, I didn’t bother to returns my 150 cows plus some other things. I told them I’m only focusing on my Child and my career but they don’t want me to have peace of mind.

    I apologize to everyone who seemed to might have got tired of this the same case since last year.

    I know winning is my DNA, and God has plans for me more to deliver to people not only people around me but countless around the world.  My ex wife has been going on abusing me with his/her friends on Facebook but I don’t respond any of them. She tried to created some false abuse that my own mother was married to a different man,,,, and eventually she left marry to my dad. Which is absolutely ridiculous and lie.

    My mom was married to my dad priod and we are only 5 in numb and my mom passed away. She tell those people that she chat with that she never knew she was married to a wrong onion. Which is me. Many guys are telling her respect the child between but she doesn’t. Should I respond the way she is doing it.??

    Any advice is much appreciated.

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #338402
    Thondit
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    Hello everyone at tiny Buddha community. Case is still under my way. 

    I trust you are keeping well. I’m also fine at the at moment.  I’m in Amsterdam at present and the horrible thing come up like nightmare. I can’t imagine and believe that my father in-law would invold himself in the issues of her wife /daughter. I received a phone that he had taken a decision to be on the side of his daughter. This is un acceptable very terrain and weird moment.

    I can’t believe that you human capabilities and their limitations are wicky. This unbelievable issues. People say don’t trust anyone. I told him I left your daughter (my wife) last year and I am proceeding with my life. Why again looking for me?

    God must crazy, why did he connected with such heartless in my life. This man called Akol (father in law) used to say I will stand with you all the times and I will never CHANGED MY WORDS but now he is the most enemy I ever had. I have never locked my horns with big people but I’m ready to do so. If he is out from his neutralize centerline then I will keep up my head and pull a rope with any of them.

    This is people are selfish and self-centered. They have no any test understanding at all.

    They all don’t mind about the baby I had between them. I left them everything, I didn’t bother to returns my 150 cows plus some other things. I told them I’m only focusing on my Child and my career but they don’t want me to have peace of mind.

    I apologize to everyone who seemed to might have got tired of this the same case since last year.

    I know winning is my DNA, and God has plans for me more to deliver to people not only people around me but countless around the world.  My ex wife has been going on abusing me with his/her friends on Facebook but I don’t respond any of them. She tried to created some false abuse that my own mother was married to a different man,,,, and eventually she left marry to my dad. Which is absolutely ridiculous and lie.

    My mom was married to my dad priod and we are only 5 in numb and my mom passed away. She tell those people that she chat with that she never knew she was married to a wrong onion. Which is me. Many guys are telling her respect the child between but she doesn’t. Should I respond the way she is doing it.??

    Any advice is much appreciated.

    Gregory.

    in reply to: Ghosted? #315311
    Thondit
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    Hi Karen,

    This man of yours is totally immature, coz he was guilty that’s why he act in such a manner. The best way to handle such a humans is by giving them space !!! Take your time and relax ,,,, don’t even text him message! In a week time he gonna come back into his senses. And hence he will be the one to call you.

    Thanks.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #305265
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    You are welcome.

    Yes the governor implemented the rule.

    Also the woman quarrel to her mother that why do you misleaded to leaved my own son and husband.

    Currently i haven’t yet agree with her though she is in dilemma .

    in reply to: conflicted #305263
    Thondit
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    Dear Tania,

    I was almost judging you in a negative way or called you “bimbo” but you respond everyone in a beautiful ways. Great!!

    My appreciation goes to ‘Peggy’ as he stated  that it is time for to face “facts”. Wonderful statement. It really amazing facts. Tinybudha,  has got a nice people , a brained people who said facts on ground and perhaps no need to hide to the truth from someone who is confused in his/her marriage. Mark, and Peggy, thanks in advance, you are also a right person you are like PIC do you know what i say?? Pilot in command, is the last person to take  a decision in the aircraft .

    Tania, thanks madam for accepting advise. But who knows that you will not cheated this man which is with you now. Chin up your head and be with your man. God has already given you him full stop.

     

    Anita, your first advice wasn’t reality to Tania, and perhaps she is married…… Tania, is back to her maturity after facing what the reality is!!!! Tania, God has a purpose of making you to marriage this man! Work for your child so that next  time you post your child here.

    I i know  it will take time for you to relief but you will!!!!

    I remembered we used to take those girls who sells themselves at night when we were in Nairobi in the year 2015 ,,,,  I met one of the young girl who is from college and after we had sex i ask why do you sell yourself out at night and eventually she said she was trying to help her mother and the siblings who are in High School ,,,,,

    I gave her strong advice and she completely stopped that business. So Tania, forget your MJ now and be focus to your amazing man.

     

    Back to Anita, remember the advice you gave when i was stuck in the month of march????

    My wife is back to me but i haven’t yet agree with her because she reached to an extended of calling my own dad in order to advice me.

    My wife quarrel with her mother telling her why did you mislead me to leave my husband and my son. Anita, check the message i posted again in the same post i posted in the month of march.

    Thank you all for those  who took time to advice Tania….

    All the best.

    Gregory.

    Anita, Gregory has resume is piloting training now in Nairobi.

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #305153
    Thondit
    Participant

    Hello Everyone @ this forum tinybuddha.

    Especially Anita, Mark,,,,, Jay Jay. And the rest whom your names are not been manuscript here…. I want to say again again that the woman who left in the month of march came back to me for apologizing that she was wrong before and moreover her mother was misleading her !!!!

    Another thing is !!! She said she want another child to have with me in order to follow the boy that we had before.

    As i tell you now they are in disagreement with her mom at this junction. She told her mother ,,,, you gave me wrong advice to leave my husband and my beloved son.

    She makes her own decision last week when i saw her post on fb posting the photos of his son Agoth Christ. She call my own father in order to convince me!

    What should i do?  Gregory

    in reply to: Sex problems #305151
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Bonni _mor

    Based on your explanation here; i will asked you once again that do you both of you have any kind of quarrel between??? If not than tell your husband to see a doctor!!! Another point is that your husband might have some sort of stress…. That what makes him not to erected at the moment. So currently your husband is fighting with problems or stress. Try to out on that ,,,,, then you will finally see him later erecting when you are both happy. All the best.

    Gregory

    in reply to: NEED ADVISE ON HOW TO CONVINCE MY FATHER #297979
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear  Dodhia,

    Based on your article its well clear but one thing you need to do is by STUDY THE CASE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP again why is your biological father rejecting this young man from marrying you. How long have been with this young man?  As in the course of your courtship ?? ? As per your father disagreeing with you and he had warn you about your boyfriend! !!! Use inside the mirror ! I mean try to forgive yourselves first since you said in your post ,,,  you ain’t close to your father.  Can you glance at anyone who is a friend to your father to convince him!  Therefore he/she will be your meditator or called it go between.

    Otherwise there is this thing which is common to all human ,,, when you are rich,  then your daughter must be marriage by the rich man.

    Nevertheless,  don’t try to force yourself in this relationship when your parents rejected your boyfriend that you had choose. If you do so than you will be like a drowning man that no one to catch his arm in the water.  There is a reason why your dad doesn’t want this man.

    Can you try to give us a list of how your dad doesn’t want this marriage to go a head.

    I will be glad to see you have when you do what is necessary that I had put here.

    IAll the best.

    Gregory

    in reply to: Need advice: My parents or my fiance #297601
    Thondit
    Participant

    Hey Tutti……

    Your post is clear to everyone and based on how you explained everything !!!! These things is a bit complicated , if your parents had rejected your boyfriend , then you have to use the third party person between to help you out.  Use someone who is the best friend to your father! !!! Meanwhile try to convince your mother so that she can be on your side. .  Never try to neglect your father out of it when you manage your mother later to be your version..

    Ask anyone who is the instructor or captain in command to your father when they are flying, ,,,,,, then approach him.

    Otherwise if you do things alone that I am mature enough to handle your issues, then you will fail terribly I tell you my dear.

    How long have been dating this man? ????

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #295019
    Thondit
    Participant

    You will enjoy it , the reading of my composition,  and I guess you will be able to describe who Gregory is!

    If I could still remember the examination that I did , then what about composition?  Give me few minutes to type it here.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #295017
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita ,

    Yeah I still have it in my head.

    The composition that I wrote 6 years ago,, ,,,, that 2013,, ,,,,

    You will see it shortly Anita .

    I also wrote a book about this woman when I was in Nairobi – Kenya.

    People enjoyed reading it. I was also a columnist with a daily News paper in Nairobi .

    Every Saturday we advise people of the same kinds concerning relationships .

    Anita,  just a moment you will see it shortly.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294855
    Thondit
    Participant

    Anita, 

    You had not answered some of my posts you promised to.

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