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  • April 8, 2019 at 11:43 am in reply to: Just Going For it #288111
    Sisi
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    Hello Anita!

    If I were to attempt at being brave, I’d maybe try to ask for some help with the subject he tutors me in, since I need someone to test me verbally with the subject. I just don’t know how to do so/ if it’d come out creepy?

    Or maybe even the easy way in by following on social media, but to be honest I think face to face is the bravest but also the most effective way to approach.

    Id rather do it when his friends aren’t there though, I wouldn’t want their presence to affect anything!

    And I do think that approaching him just to learn how to approach and gain confidence in that field is helpful!

    Thank you!

    sisi

     

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    April 7, 2019 at 5:06 pm in reply to: Just Going For it #288005
    Sisi
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    Hello Anita,

    I do tend to overthink quite often so I agree with you on the mind reading things, it’d take forever and day to try and dissect someone’s actions, so I better stop!

    I thank you for your honesty! I do agree that shyness isn’t always a reason for no interaction; it could simply just be disinterest/ indifference!

    I guess it’s just the whole “what if” and being brave enough to approach someone who caught my eye is what is bugging me!

    Thank you!

    sierra

    April 7, 2019 at 5:03 pm in reply to: Just Going For it #288003
    Sisi
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    Hello Inky!

    I agree that staring is kinda over doing it, and personally if they are saying things about me I’d rather know than have to think about what’s being said.

    Also, he’s only going to another university, we live close to one another! So even if a friendship or anything were to happen, it wouldn’t be bad!

    But thank you for the advice!

     

    sierra

    April 7, 2019 at 5:00 pm in reply to: Just Going For it #287999
    Sisi
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    Hello Valora!

    I really liked the advice and point of view you’ve given me.

    I guess the negatives I see of this situation is simply just rejection. I’m not really even looking to get into a relationship so soon anyway, but I would like a chance of at least friendship! From what I’ve heard he’s very nice.

    You’ve made me realize that I won’t lose much if I try it out! He could be questioning talking to me as well, or not, but even then I’ll never know till I try!

    Sierra

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    April 6, 2019 at 9:39 am in reply to: Just Going For it #287893
    Sisi
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    Hey Anita!

    I agree I did a lot of the mind reading stuff, which gets me nowhere and honestly drives me crazy.

    He asked me questions about my school, my past, where I was from, where I wanted to study and what I wanted to study. We were making jokes and we overall had a pretty good conversation! Even when he had to go, he was lingering on with the conversation a little more.

    But yes I do see your point, if someone takes interest in you and wants to get to know you, why wouldn’t they just do it, especially if we’ve already spoken.

    I use the excuse “maybe he’s too shy”, but in reality he could not be intrigued.

    I guess I’m just trying to figure out if it’s even worth putting myself out there to someone I barely know, or if I should forget and move on!

    Sierra

     

    April 6, 2019 at 9:34 am in reply to: Just Going For it #287891
    Sisi
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    Thanks Valora!

    I really really want to just say “screw it” and just go for itt. I guess the fact that we’re practically strangers makes it very hard!

    Thank you for the advice though!

     

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