Yes thank you Michelle!

I’ll be sure to let you know about work related things and problems!

thank u,

sisi

Hey Michelle,

I actually am looking now! I wouldn’t quit unless I found something that interests me. I’d really would love to step into the work of languages as a job and media as well. If I do find something better, I’d leave. I technically don’t have an obligation. I just don’t want to get into the habit of leaving jobs, you know? Although I’m nowhere near working at my career job, I feel like I’d be building bad habits at a young age by leaving fast.

But I do agree that I need to evaluate when I should stick it out and when I shouldn’t. I technically should have the right to know my scheduling, but many jobs are dishonest in that sense so I guess I’ll have to deal until I find a better place!

I appreciate your point of view and opinion!

Thanks,

sisi

Hey Michelle

McDonalds was a good job but yes I did want to move on. So when I found the other job, what made me feel stressed and anxiety was my coworkers  and managers (very stern and passive aggressive) and my boss (who was pregnant, but very catty and rude). I’ve never had to deal with that type of angry boss before, because at McDonald’s the bosses spoke kindly and made it clear of what they wanted without making you feel terrible. So, I just never felt settled at that job. I felt like an outcast slightly cause most of the employees were there for some time and I was new. And also, my management was very disorganized with schedules, and that’s another thing that set me off. I sound really picky, cause I know most jobs have inconsistent scheduling.

Aso for this job now, I got some angry coworker and negative environment vibes that I had at the last job. And I also really don’t like how my schedule isn’t accurate, because instead of doing a 6 hour shift I could be doing at 10+ hour shift, but I would only find out when I get to my shift and they tell me to stay. A lot of my coworkers deal with it though, and I know I can as well.

I guess I have to go through both the good and the bad to grow and learn. I can’t just leave after something is bad.

But I would really enjoy a job that had to do with languages and arts, since that’s what I study in school and would help me out a lot for my future career. I just can’t seem to find much of those student jobs anywhere.

thank you,

sisi

Hey Anita

yes! That seems perfectly reasonable!

I’m definitely building up the courage, and when I do so I’ll see how it goes. Thank you!

sierra

Hello Anita,

I do tend to overthink quite often so I agree with you on the mind reading things, it’d take forever and day to try and dissect someone’s actions, so I better stop!

I thank you for your honesty! I do agree that shyness isn’t always a reason for no interaction; it could simply just be disinterest/ indifference!

I guess it’s just the whole “what if” and being brave enough to approach someone who caught my eye is what is bugging me!

Thank you!

sierra

Hello Valora!

I really liked the advice and point of view you’ve given me.

I guess the negatives I see of this situation is simply just rejection. I’m not really even looking to get into a relationship so soon anyway, but I would like a chance of at least friendship! From what I’ve heard he’s very nice.

You’ve made me realize that I won’t lose much if I try it out! He could be questioning talking to me as well, or not, but even then I’ll never know till I try!

Sierra

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Thanks Valora!

I really really want to just say “screw it” and just go for itt. I guess the fact that we’re practically strangers makes it very hard!

Thank you for the advice though!