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  • January 21, 2014 at 7:53 am #49469
    sarah
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    Thank you Jenn ay… that is just what i was hoping to hear… My niece is 24 so an adult, but in her thinking and actions she is very immature.. My feelings have been very much as you stated towards the end.. I do not want to cut her off, but i will only deal with her when i am happy to and in the right circumstances… I will begin to do more for her when i feel she is starting to treat others with respect.. My sister has to be blunt spoilt her and this has lead to her daughter taking whatever she wants from anyone and if they do not give, being nasty behind their backs… she would never speak to me badly to my face it is all back biting.. so.. yes.. i am going to step back and try to calm my spirit before i take on any more and then it will be with boundaries which she is getting to learn already with me (shame no one else teaches her them).. it will lead to her either respecting me more or not, either way that is her choice… Thank you for the advice.. any more that is forthcoming is more than welcome..

    January 21, 2014 at 6:03 am #49465
    sarah
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    Hi , sorry i didnt make it very clear.. She is 24 and has been trouble for a long time.. i have tried to help her over the past 10 years and have finally snapped really… But yes Simran a lot of what you say makes sense, i am going to keep some distance for a while and then when i have healed a little i will see how things sit then.. Thank you for your ideas , it really helps to hear others opinions x
    Sarah

    January 16, 2014 at 9:17 am #49214
    sarah
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    Nice idea and yes a hard one to do as i have always been taught by my parents that i was BIG Headed if i praised myself.. ! So here goes..
    1. I am compassionate to the point of crying over things which others would not even consider.. I feel others pain.
    2. I have strength of commitment.. determination (tho sometimes that can be a negative lol)
    3. I love to giggle.. I would much rather laugh than cry
    4. I get excited about life even when it isnt always going good.
    5. I am a loving mother and wife.

    January 15, 2014 at 2:12 pm #49165
    sarah
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    My wishes for this year are, one for my husband to have a clean bill of health.. My son to be happy in his life.. My daughter to find stability and a way of life that is more fulfilling…For my siblings to find inner peace and for me.. just to get healthier and stronger… physically and mentally…Happy and peaceful New Year to you all. oh must not miss out my animals ! for them to bond and live happily together , ! xx

    January 15, 2014 at 12:43 pm #49159
    sarah
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    I hope you dont mind me speaking , but i felt compelled to….I have no words of wisdom to impart i am afraid, i am new to this community too.. all i wanted to say was you did not come across as egotistic or any of them things… Your words held pain and a truth that you have said needed to be written to be seen.. I see a good heart and a soul in distress… i truly hope that you can find a way through this and that these lovely people on here can soothe your ills… Take care and try to be a bit easier on yourself..
    Sarah

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