Hi, I’m in the same situation like you. It’s been four years since I graduated, but I work at restaurant because I could not find a decent job. There are so many people tell me do this or do that they all make me feel low and that’s why most of the time I feel lack of motivation or feel like I am getting old or my friends are more successful and they are married etc. But still there is a hope that one day every thing will be fine and keep on trying and have positive thinking.