Afternoon all,

Michelle has highlighted different perspectives and opinions challenge you to self reflect therefore to begin I would like to accept full responsibility for the delivery of my message and apologise to those who felt shamed and judged. Not my intention at all.

I do not wish to share my story, my aim was to focus on invoking or inspiring a change (positive) in people’s lives without sympathy for myself. Hence why my message was delivered in a stoic manner. But on reflection, Michelle is correct. A lot of you need guidance and support. Longevity is not something I can provide, as I am terminal.

This will be my last message, I have decided to refocus my attention on leaving an impact on people I know personally. It would be counter productive to continue… if I am not able to support those who need extra help to follow through on the essence of my message.

There was no malice intended, I stand by my words; life is too short and we have the control to make our lives happy and fulfilled. It comes from gratitude, appreciating time and making the issues which feel insurmountable become so trivial to ourselves that they no longer impact our happiness or affect us in a negative manner (I.e. mental health issues, low worth, low belief and anxiety).

This is done through rewiring our mind and following through with action. So we lay the track to thinking positively which will produce more better decisions and life choices.

I leave you with this ; you can’t go back and change the beginning but you can start where you are and change the ending. May you all live the remainder of your lives with peace and contentment even when the inevitable trials and tribulations, life throws your way.

Sammy, again if you felt ashamed by my words I apologise. However I’m glad you recognised ending your life os not the way forward as you have the power to change it. That is what you should work on. Change the negative virus that infects your mind – all those negative thoughts which make you feel unworthy and have a positive attitude to believing by making wiser choices and decisions you will create a better version of life for yourself. Again have gratitude for what you have- focus your thoughts on that. This will have a ripple effect on your anxiety and life thus you will make more conscious well thought life choices.

Brace yourself for my view. You don’t have real gratitude because if you did you wouldn’t be asking this question particularly whilst we are going through a pandemic of this scale which will change life as we know it.

What can I do to appreciate this “wonderful…man?” Ask yourself if you were to lose him tomorrow to coronavirus would you be devastated or sit there thinking Never mind, it’s ok he’s gone as we had lost the honeymoon phase of a relationship (which everyone does.)

Don’t take for granted what you have because when you lose it and find it was irreplaceable it will be to late. You’ll have no choice but to accept that situation.

Stop asking for more, more and more. Count your blessings. If as you said you have a wonderful, intelligent man in front of you who loves you, discuss it with him or even surprise him, spice it up. You have half the control of your physical relationship. It’s not hard when you have two adults who love each other to inject that in.

If you don’t know who you are. Then simply ask yourself who do you want to be ? What will bring you happiness? You are in control. Ask yourself who do I want to be remembered as what mark do I want to leave on this world? Every single human being has purpose. Discover it. Seek it.

All requires perseverance, goals and objectives. If you believe you can and will achieve.

A post which might shake some of you out of your funk. Disclaimer: I’m not saying your heartbreak is something to be diminished. Anxiety is certainly not something to mock. However you need to open your eyes and see the bigger picture.

I have survived far worse, I’m not here to share that story. Your woes are not any less either but I’m here to inspire you to come out of this as better humans, with more appreciation for the sanctity of life.

You are gifted a life, this pandemic should awaken your soul, we are all in the same boat. The least we can do is inwardly assess our contribution to the world. What kind of humans are we? Who do we associate with? Is it people who make positive strides in life or suck our energy.

Look at yourselves, really introspect deeply, some of you claim to be empaths. If you can’t help others at this time in some way because you feel overwhelmed then help yourselves at least.

If we overcome this pandemic and get through to the other side, then do you want to be the exact same person?
Will you have learnt anything at all or simply just survived and return back to your woes about being heartbroken? Will you continue to live half a life because of old wounds or are you going to wake up and reinvent yourself to be a better human and inspire the future generations by showing grit and determination to overcome and accept what life throws at you and excel.

Your mind is a weapon. Exploit it correctly. Inspire progression, to be ruminating over an ex lover at this time is stupidity. A virus in itself. You are infecting and destroying your own happiness. So continue along this overthinking path and not learn anything from this pandemic . Or you can wake up and see the bigger picture; you are breathing, you are alive (someone is gasping for their last breath all alone without their loved ones) you have an opportunity to LIVE. If there ever was an opportunity for new beginnings and finding purpose to be happy it’s now. If you can’t see the happiness you have or my words don’t resonate with you to make yourself come out of this a better version, then all I can say is I really pity you.

Wallowing in self pity will not serve you well. Self pity reinforces the belief that you are not in control. You are in FULL control of your happiness. Don’t just complain about your situation which you keep putting yourself in. Make different choices.

Remain safe, remain focused and Peace out! It will be interesting to see how much impact my words had. This is not me being cruel, it’s a dose of reality which is needed for many of you I’m afraid.

A post which might shake some of you out of your funk. Disclaimer: I’m not saying your heartbreak is something to be diminished. Anxiety is certainly not something to mock. However you need to open your eyes and see the bigger picture.

I have survived far worse, I’m not here to share that story. Your woes are not any less either but I’m here to inspire you to come out of this as better humans, with more appreciation for the sanctity of life.

You are gifted a life, this pandemic should awaken your soul, we are all in the same boat. The least we can do is inwardly assess our contribution to the world. What kind of humans are we? Who do we associate with? Is it people who make positive strides in life or suck our energy.

Look at yourselves, really introspect deeply, some of you claim to be empaths. If you can’t help others at this time in some way because you feel overwhelmed then help yourselves at least.

If we overcome this pandemic and get through to the other side, then do you want to be the exact same person?
Will you have learnt anything at all or simply just survived and return back to your woes about being heartbroken? Will you continue to live half a life because of old wounds or are you going to wake up and reinvent yourself to be a better human and inspire the future generations by showing grit and determination to overcome and accept what life throws at you and excel.

Your mind is a weapon. Exploit it correctly. Inspire progression, to be ruminating over an ex lover at this time is stupidity. A virus in itself. You are infecting and destroying your own happiness. So continue along this overthinking path and not learn anything from this pandemic . Or you can wake up and see the bigger picture; you are breathing, you are alive (someone is gasping for their last breath all alone without their loved ones) you have an opportunity to LIVE. If there ever was an opportunity for new beginnings and finding purpose to be happy it’s now. If you can’t see the happiness you have or my words don’t resonate with you to make yourself come out of this a better version, then all I can say is I really pity you.

Wallowing in self pity will not serve you well. Self pity reinforces the belief that you are not in control. You are in FULL control of your happiness. Don’t just complain about your situation which you keep putting yourself in. Make different choices.

Remain safe, remain focused and Peace out! It will be interesting to see how much impact my words had. This is not me being cruel, it’s a dose of reality which is needed for many of you I’m afraid.