Hi Mina,

You said that you would not get back with that person again so the bottom line is, you have to move on. If there is no way that you would have a relationship with that person then there is no need to feel guilty. You are doing the right thing for yourself by honouring your decision.

The way you are feeling is perfectly normal. Obviously you spent a lot of meaningful time with this person so you are entitled to remember the good time whilst undertaking your own selful journey of moving on. I think many many people would feel a similar way.

Hi Dustin,

I feel that love and relationships aren’t about what the other person has to offer. It’s deeper then that, somebody can simply like your company and that is all it takes to have a great partner in life. So don’t feel like you have nothing to offer, if your kindhearted and courteous to others then just being you is enough!

Also, think about all the bad things you don’t have! For example, drug addiction, huge debt etc. you may be in a good position by not what you “have” but what you don’t have.

if your feeling bored there are a few things I can suggest. Firstly, think about what you want in a partner and let that inspire you. It doesn’t mattter if it’s a younger women or an older women.

Laugh at things and have a good sense of humour

and if your still bored I highly suggest you try surfing.

you can try it in so many places these days. Any ocean, the Great Lakes have waves, there are even specific surf wave pools in places like Texas now.

Hi Vic,

Looks like you “dodged a bullet” with that guy. Sounds like someone not worth being in your life.

So firstly, anyone who judges someone on something very minor probably isn’t a very intelligent person and regardless of thier preference in grooming clearly lacks basic tolerance for differences. people who act like that probably aren’t the right people to have a relationship with and I doubt even understand what It is to love someone or be someone’s partner.

Now secondly, I’m a guy and I’m not bad looking. So maybe you would like my opinion as from your perspective I might be one of the people you are concerned about potentially judging you.

I am totally fine with girls being natural and having body hair. I think it looks attractive and a girl can be beautiful with it. I would go as far as to say I like it or prefer it (though I have nothing against girls who shave/wax either) all I’m saying is there are many guys out there (probably more awesome then you think) that would like you for who you are. So don’t go changing because of a negative experience someone put you through. Also I just asked my friend what he thinks, he agreed, body hair is fine and he prefers it to girls going crazy with the razor.