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LucieParticipantDear Anita,
I am coming back to this post after nearly 5 years! OMG time goes by so quickly. I am now alright in my life. Made good choice by the grace of God. I now have my boyfriend who since few years. My ‘best friend’ is still there, not anymore my best friend however. He just needed friend with benefit i guess. Recently he texted me, he is still single and mingling around. He knows that i got my bf. But however, i think somewhere due to it did not work out between me and him i want and feel to make him so jealous to let him know that i was not of hooking up material although he knows that. I think its just an ego issue towards him. Ugh! Tbh, i am happy with everything in my life. Great bf, love and everything. 🙂
LucieParticipantHi Anita,
I am very glad to see you always around and replying everyone possible. Its great support for all of us. Especially those who suffer or facing issues in their life. I have been with Tinybuddha for a few years now but somehow got disconnected. Now that i am back i see you around it feels great how you put yourself in and guide others. Its amazing! 🙂
November 27, 2020 at 2:44 pm in reply to: Trying to deal with anxiety and loss after relationship break up #370047LucieParticipantHi Tim, i know i am replying after ages, actually yes i am doing well. Things have changed for me for the past few years. I hope the best for you too. 🙂
LucieParticipantHi Anita
I feel down because now he’s no more available for me. He’s still single. He got other friends too with whom he normally hangs out. But I can’t bear anyone else name to be frank this pricks my soul. Once he asked me if I missed him. I said I’m used to him. He again asked me ‘Addicted to me?’ I said maybe I don’t know. To be frank yes I miss him during working hours too I think of him. The first thing when I get up I msg him or its vice versa. Or the same thing when I’m on my home we talk or msg. So my world maybe revolves around him. But as he got many other friends. He’s not like me. Whereas in my case he’s the most special one.
LucieParticipant@Inky
Thanks Inky for these words. It means a lot. I’m not a great believer of astrology but scared of it. It has shown me lots of negative things. Frankly i prefer to live my life according to the flow. Whether bad or good just go along and face it with a positive way. Let’s go happy way. 🙂LucieParticipant@ Moongal
Hi dear, thanks foe illuminating me with your thinking. I’m looking forward to a brighter laughter, brighter future. Thanks!
🙂LucieParticipant@ Jodi
Hi dear thanks for the encouragement. i just hope it turns out to be good in future days. 🙂LucieParticipantHi dear, you’re right about the open ended questions and more communication. But he has always been a yes or no guy while texting. He does not like long messages he may not read them. He himself told me. If we talk then only he expresses himself but not while messaging. Now he has even blocked my number; we are not talking neither he has called me yet. Its his ego problem or i don’t know what’s the reason.
LucieParticipant@Brian & Anita
Hi dear, actually i mean this like i’m not of course going anywhere until he replies me, i’m waiting for a reply. I frankly tell you i called him several times but i think he blocked my number on his phone too. i was upset i asked him. he said nothing. still messaging on messenger that is what is going on. I really don’t know what upsets him. As far as i know him he’s very practical guy. He does not fall much in emotions.LucieParticipantDear Amy,
I understand your pain. But whatever happens; happens for the best. Believe me you gonna have someone who would love you for who you are. Let yourself heal don’t worry for someone who do cares a damn. Maybe he found you too good for him or maybe he thought you were easy going girl. Instead of thinking about something which has already ended, focus on building your great life. Don’t weaken yourself babes. So many opportunities awaiting you ahead. Why worry? Work on your fears and make yourself stronger and bolder so that if ever he crosses your way, he gonna realise what a Gem he lost!
Chill babes. Feel young, beautiful, make your weaknesses your Strengths this is the only way out to conquer the world. I know you’ll do it. N keep smiling. You look awesome! 🙂
Muuuahhhh :-*
Hugs & Kisses
Lucie
LucieParticipant@ kat. Yes dr we talked about it he wants to date me but I want a committed relationship which maybe he doesnot want. He told me am a sweet girl this is why he wanna date me. but i love him This is the story about. Now I don’t know what to do.
LucieParticipant@ Inky
Hehe thanks loads. Okay i’ll not message him nor call let him do the step. But i forgot to mention i was telling him its time to marry he’s near 30. he was denying and abruptly he asked me ‘ will you marry me?’i replied ‘ do u think i lack problems?’ and he answered this ‘ oh so i’m a problem for you. Thank you’. so i changed the topic.Either i’ll be his love or be his close friend but I don’t want to be an option in his life. Because i love him and he knows that i care too much for him but just don’t show him he’s my weakness but at the same time he’s my strength that i fell for him. Bliss!
LucieParticipant@ anita
thanks a lot for this advice. 🙂LucieParticipant@ inky thanks a lot dear. I’m moving away from my boyfriend. But to move on with my friend isn’t it a bit too early as I don’t know what does he think of me? After 4 years of a committed relationship and my boyfriend ditching me I think I need a break and creating my own space.
LucieParticipantHi dear i read about your situation. frankly i know its hard to forget someone you did care for and loved. But just answer me one thing. Would you like to spend your life just because you loved him to this extent and he has cheated you?? What about your self respect?
First thing, If he really cared he would have never gone to another girl. he told you that he thought you already broke up and he got another girl so quickly? Or the girl was already here when you both were into relationship?
Secondly, you paid his expenses and agreed for joint account. Babe he was just using you. But I want you to realise it before its too late before you start to sicken because of this guy that you’ve got your life which is yours he can’t manipulate you.
Third thing, dont rush to be into another relationship because at this stage you ll find many branches to hold but you ll not be able to judge the right one.
So choose to be happy dear and please give you some time do your favourite things. Right ow focus on your career, try to keep you busy. Make yourself realise the fact that you’re beautiful person and one day there ll be a guy made for you who ll keep you happy. as everything happens for the best. So babe get ready to feel wonderful things to happen in your life. Cheers ad keep smiling. 🙂
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