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  • in reply to: How do you know it's over? #44905
    Kistina
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    Is he willing to get help with the lying? Are you willing to live with the stress of being lied to? I had a hard time dealing with this as well, with a few other differences, children being one of them. I walked away after 18 years and 6 children, hardest decision I’ve ever made, many journal entries and tears later I simply walked away. The stress he filled me with is gone. I do have new stresses, but they are my own and I can deal with those. When someone else is causing you stress and they aren’t willing or able to change then you have to do what’s best for you.

    in reply to: Is waiting wise? #44902
    Kistina
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    We were together a little over a year. I know that he is grieving as well. I sent him an email telling him how I feel, he says that he did see us as a family and then changed the subject to how he has online learning things he has to get done before he leaves and I’m busy at school and taking care of my children and that is why he’s ending it now. Because we’re too busy. My 16 yr old daughter talked to him about seeing me until he leaves, but he said he couldn’t do that to me.

    My thinking is I would rather have these 3 months of seeing each other when we can as opposed to knowing it’s possible and choosing not to. So, I don’t understand the “do that to her” part.

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