Hi Anita,

Thank you so much for the insight. I will try and help him more. Last night we had a conversation about it, I told him that I felt it wasn’t fair that the friend just showed up not taking into accountability what had gone wrong earlier in April. I also told him we do not need toxic people in our lives. I told him if this person makes you feel anxious just by receiving a text, is not looking like a healthy person for you. I expressed that when I get a message from an old friend I usually feel happy, if I feel unhappy is obviously because that person isn’t aligned with me and my values. He agreed and thanked me for my insight. I also said that I would respect if he wants to give him a second chance, but that I think he cannot discuss me or our relationship with him at all. My bf then told me he doesn’t want to be friend’s with this person anymore and that he is thinking of not even replying to his text. He remains blocked, he actually texted my bf from his wife’s phone. We worked out and I really hope this person is no longer a part of our lives.

thank you!