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    Fred
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    Nice update. As I mentioned I am very much in the same boat. However, everyone has said leave her alone. I have done that at much personal pain. They also say, I need to be happy and comfortable with myself before I can even expect her to think about me again. Then if she doesn’t I am not screwed again so I understand the pain. I have been using the opportunity to work to put her out of my mind which isn’t very easy for me to do.
    Good luck to you,
    Fred

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    Fred
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    Matt, that is so well said.
    fred

    #48713
    Fred
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    Believe it or not, the almost exact thing happen or is happening to me. I am 68 though and she is 64 and a widow. Nevertheless, she also said she loves me and I am a great guy but….. I don’t really know what the but is and neither does she. I so want her in my life but I know I can’t make it work as much as I hope. My family says she has issues that prevent her from commuting further-maybe she still loves her dead husband, I don’t know. It is now about 1 month since she departed in a therapists office where she made this decision for the most part. I know from reading everything that the worst thing I can do is call or write as much as I want to. Everyone tells me not to as well, so I haven’t but the pain just stays with me all the time.
    So I can sympathize or empathize with you 100%. Let’s keep in touch and keep each other posted.
    Fred

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