Hello Anita,
Thanks for taking the time to read through and reply sorry I wasn’t clear enough.
This is what happened:
First occasion: We had planned a party months in advance but days before the party I was given the opportunity for a free trip and decided to accept, she was very upset with me for leaving.
Second and current occasion: On her birthday I left the party because my parents were calling me to return to my house, told her why I have to go back to my house but ended up going to a club. She obviously found out I went to a club instead of my house and is very mad at me.