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  • November 24, 2013 at 11:32 pm in reply to: In so much pain and confusion it's ruining me. #45787
    Francis V
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    I’m not sure if both of you are juping into a rebound relationship. i suggest that you take enough space and time to reflect on your relationship and on your life. better get into a new relationship in a clean slate then jumping to another relationship with unresolved emotions from the past.

    All the best.

    November 24, 2013 at 11:29 pm in reply to: Confused On Love #45786
    Francis V
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    if the relationship is not bringing the best out of you, better leave that relationship. Yes, a brokken heart can be healed but it takes a longer time to heal emotionally. You deserve someone who would respect and love you.

    November 24, 2013 at 11:24 pm in reply to: Letting go without closure #45785
    Francis V
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    Hi Chermich,

    I’m sorry to hear about the pain that you are going through. It’s always ok to feel the pain as it will help you on yur healing process. sometimes, it’s really quite hard to understand why something really good has to end. The best thing that yu can do right now is to learn the value of acceptance. slowly rebuild your life and heal your self from the pain and hurt that was caused by the breakup.

    I’d like to share some videos from our friend, Clay as this might help you further.
    How to Get Over a Breakup >> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpmAqz9Gysg
    Is acceptance really just about giving up? No, it’s about not resisting your experience of life>> http://relationshipinnergame.com/added-suffering/

    Hopes this help.

    All the best.

    October 24, 2013 at 6:25 am in reply to: Feeling like I have lost the love of my life and I know it is my fault. #44286
    Francis V
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    Sarah,

    I’m sorry to hear about the breakup and i know that you are going through a tough time right now. If you are going to ask me, why don’t you respect his wishes for space as of the moment. That would allow both of you to rethink and reevaluate the relationship. The more you send him letters out of frustration will just lead to another negative emotions. Take some time to heal yourself from the pain and hurt feelings caused by the breakup. And this is the time to forgive yourself as well. It is not all your fault. It take two to tango.

    I’d like to share some videos that might shed some light on your situation. take some time to watch it. 🙂
    Forgiving Yourself for the Breakup >>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFfMKh1ibtU

    October 24, 2013 at 6:16 am in reply to: Losing the little self-esteem and self-respect #44285
    Francis V
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    Hey Courageous,

    I’m sorry to hear that you are going through a lot of pain right now. The best thing you can do is to start rebuilding yourself. For now, it will be better if you settle your emotions and heal yourself from the pain and hurt caused by the situation. If you have time, check this article written by my friend Mika on how to start loving yourself.

    http://lovingboldly.com/blog/make-self-love-automatic-3-ways-to-start-loving-yourself-today/

    and here’s another video that might be applicable on what you are going through
    How to Survive an Affair and Forgive a Cheating Spouse> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r1LaoRUdG4

    All the best…

    October 24, 2013 at 12:24 am in reply to: Still single #44277
    Francis V
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    I had been single for over 3 years. After the painful breakup, i told myself, instead of getting into dating spree why don’t I try to DATE myself instead. From there, i was able to do things that I wanted to to, had more time to read and pursue my hobbies, spent more time with my family and friends. I was able to rebuild myself. I become more confident and I love myself more than ever. Just 4 months ago, I found the person whom I was attracted to. but getting into a new relationship, it gives me maturity and better ways on handling things.

    October 24, 2013 at 12:13 am in reply to: Totally Stuck – Not Sure What To Do In Relationship #44276
    Francis V
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    Hi,

    It seems like you are caught in the middle and I’m sorry to hear about that. I don’t want to post something long but I’ll share a link that might shed some light on your situation.

    How to know if you’re in the right relationship>> http://lovingboldly.com/blog/is-this-the-right-relationship-for-me-should-you-commit-to-a-relationship/

    –Francis

    October 24, 2013 at 12:09 am in reply to: Broken man #44275
    Francis V
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    Donnie06,

    I’m sorry to hear that you are going through these pain. I’d like to share a link that might further help you.
    http://lovingboldly.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-loneliness/

    –Francis

    October 22, 2013 at 8:48 pm in reply to: How to cope with the death of your pet? please help #44204
    Francis V
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    My dog died for over 3 years now. Honestly, I mourn for a week. I was depressed. I love my baby so much. But I didn’t blame anyone for her death (even my ex cause she lived there for a while since I cannot have pets in my own apartment) I decided not to have any pet as of the moment. But what helped me cope with the situation is that I devoted my free time helping other people how to take care of their pets both on line and in person. I realized having a pet made me more compassionate and loving. And my baby was my guiding force.

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