Hi Elfie,

I’m very glad to see that you have that fire in you to achieve and become something in life. That’s a very good sign, and you’re just out of your teenage!

In no way it is a problem.

Put down on a piece of paper what is it that you would want to do or achieve.
Take up higher education in a different city/country?
Which field would you want to pursue based on your interests AND
which field/stream has better scope for career. #basichomework.

Let the fire ignite and turn the guilt into dreams/vision/mission/goal/aim.

Wish you All the Best!! God Bless you!

And if there’s something you don’t want; don’t do it unless it’s not for you too.

Hi Nikki,

We consider the world is against us, when we are with low self-esteem. I’m going through a similar phase. Working towards building self-esteem, so that I don’t go wrong at workplace at least. And I have done similar faux pas with my college friends long ago. When we’re lost, it happens. Accept it as a part of life too and move on by taking care of yourself.

Please ignore all/any harsh comments you’re receiving at this time. Whatever is happening is only because you’re low. That’s why you need to take care of yourself, give yourself the love and care you deserve.

http://www.self-esteem-experts.com/how-the-brain-works.html.

Love n Light to you….Take care.

Everything will be fine. If it’s not right, it’s not the end.

Hi RDB,

I can understand your situation, for I have been through being ‘unemployed’. I had no support from my fiance, family was strong. One of my uncles supported me, asked me to stay at his place and not go back to my hometown which is a small city with less opportunities.

I can understand that you must have a lot of financial responsibilities. Hold your head high. Be strong. It’s not the end of the world. Take out and throw the fear out of you. Take support of your near and dear ones and sail through this tough time. Take a deep breath and think out of the box for what could be other ventures and possibilities of employment.

Stay strong!

Benny,

Sometimes we know deep within the reason of any person’s behavior but we are just not able to accept it/or don’t want to.

So if you think that it was your behavior at fault; you will have to make up for it, give her even more wonderful moments and days for her to come back. May be she is waiting for this from your end.

But if it is just a guilt for no fault; please don’t blame yourself for anything and everything.

Put your thinking cap on and move in the right direction.

In my experience; in tough times, it’s better to be strong, with a sound state of mind and take wise decisions. So please don’t be lost, for I understand your feelings and what you’re going through.

We are here to support you! Do the right thing!

Love and Light!

Casey,

How many other such things are there apart from sex that if you deny; he would want to break the relation and go angry.

And, it sounds more like a competition than a relation! The girl who gives more of sex, wins!

Please gear-up your senses and think sensibly.

Hi Alexy,

It’s really appreciable that you respected her and thought about long-term before getting physical.

But why would you want to lose hopes, even before starting the relation? For sure, long-distance relationships are difficult to maintain; but still I think, you could at least give it a try?

All the Best and Good Luck!

Cheers!