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  • February 26, 2019 at 1:03 am #281851
    Andrea vezhesa
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    Dear serife,

    Im agree with mandelbrot’s replies. Soon or later, you will be faced with another fear of rejection. If you do not act on this, based on my experience, the same fear will come over again until you overcome it. Im not saying that you need to talk to him directly. But im saying that you really need to figure out what you wanted, its either go or leave.

    And if you have the decision, make sure you get the clear picture of your desires. List out the move that you need to make, to finally increase gradually to reach your goals. Silly move are fine–nothing is perfect. Slow move also fine, at least you will be closer to him.

    If i were you, and truly wanted something, ill find my way to seek it. Both “go or leave”, they have the risks and also have their own way of “fear”that you, soon or later, will be faced with.

    However, the decision is up to you. Aren’t you curious to feel what you’ve wanted this whole time?

     

    regards,

    a boy.

     

    February 20, 2019 at 3:28 pm #281073
    Andrea vezhesa
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    Dear Serife,

    From my perspective,if you really want to seek the answer, there is no other way but to ask. I mean, you should think to yourself of “what’s the worst that could happen?”. Otherwise, you’ll be hunted by the unspoken answer.

    By looking at my own story and while reading yours, perhaps you could say that im the boy (Ted). I lied to my friend, even my self, that i do not like the person, because im not so sure about your answer.

    Okay short story. So, i was really fell into this person, and we had good memories. However, because of “unclarity” and mixed signals, i never give my self a chance to speak my feelings with her.You should know: boys are afraid of uncertainty too.

    People used to call me fuckboy and so on, i never afraid of asking girls out, but for this time, because the feeling is real, and i’m afraid of  rejection and uncertainty, Those answer never came to me– yet still hunts me.

    And finally, while you guys still have a chance (both single or etc), and if you afraid of asking him, just clear the signal first by making some gesture back to him. i mean he sang ;). Hopefully this will clear out all the blurry barriers, and if he felt the same way, he will do the rest.

    You should know that Boys vet everything when it comes to real feelings, and KEEP IN MIND, “what’s the worst that could happen”.

    Regards,

    Boys.

    *note: sorry for grammatical errors, if any, im not native speaker.

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