“When we get too caught up in the busyness of the world, we lose connection with one another and ourselves.” ~Jack Kornfield
In today’s virtual world, considering regular mail can feel rather absurd. Why would you send a postcard when you can instantly send an email or an e-card conveying your thoughts and good wishes, right?
But what happened to the charms of opening your mailbox and wondering what lies within? Hasn’t the walk back from the postbox become rather boring with only bills and flyers to expect?
Though the digital age has done a marvelous job at getting the world closer, it hasn’t been able to incorporate the personal touch that the physical world offers.
The tummy just doesn’t tingle on an electronic signature saying, “Miss you,” and the joys of hearing from someone are short lived, extending only to the length of the email message itself.
I myself had forgotten the charms of the snail mail until recently, when I met a young gentleman during my travels across the globe. As we exchanged contact details and said our goodbyes, he managed to startle me as he said, “I’ll write to you.”
Now being from the twenty-first century and deeply sunken into the virtual world, I found this statement to be rather preposterous.
“You mean email me,” I said sarcastically.
I failed to understand why someone would want to write to me through regular mail, since it may take weeks to arrive, when I could possibly be reading the message almost instantaneously.
Though something in me suddenly cherished the idea of getting physical mail. The simple yet thoughtful words “Hold tight, you should be getting something in the mail soon” made me feel like a child again, impatient and excited about what lies ahead.
The excitement of figuring out the postman’s timings and running to the mailbox as you see the mail van cross is priceless. The actual present at this moment is irrelevant; it’s the thought that makes all the difference.
Could an email ever make you feel this way? Is it even possible for the virtual world to transport the thought with the letter as elegantly as the physical world does?
The extra effort of writing a letter by hand and going through the trouble to post it somehow makes all the difference. This simple act converts a static email message to a thoughtful and tangible piece of work that you can cherish forever.
This makes me wonder, is faster always better? Is the new always superior to the old?
What is rather interesting is that, though we might have the desire to know everything instantaneously, the moments that we look back on and cherish are often the ones that were the least expected.
They are the ones that came out of nowhere, the ones that we took a moment to experience and indulge in, the ones where we created memories slowly, one step at a time.
As we grow older and indulge ourselves in the fast-paced world, we sometimes forget the joys of the unexpected.
Patience and curiosity have no space in our lives, as we desire to know everything, right now.
Uncertainty makes us uneasy and cautious to such a great extent that we strive harder and harder to make this very uncertain world…certain.
So get out there and write a line or two to a loved one or surprise someone by mailing a thoughtful present. Make an extra effort to tell someone how you feel and rediscover the charms of the traditional way of things.
The postman may not come by on a bicycle anymore, but the joys of awaiting a postcard or a letter from a dear one hasn’t changed a bit.
Though it might feel like the slowest process on the planet, and it quite arguably could be, somehow the time lapsed only adds more depth to your thought, and the anticipation makes your message even more charming.
This experience tempted me to venture into to unknown and send out a postcard myself. Though it took my postcard an exceptionally long time to get to its destination, the excitement of it finally making it was simply indescribable.
It’s the simplest things in life that are the most magical. Start the cycle, send a smile the traditional way and see the ripple effect it creates.
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About Vibha Dhawan
Vibha Dhawan is an engineer during the day, a writer by night and a non-conformist by nature. She enjoys travelling, yoga and writing about life on her blog Curious Lounge. Connect with her via Twitter @curiouslounge.
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Awesomest article dear Vibha. Loved the way you writed and loved how your article transported to those joys and impatience of waiting for a postcard. your artical can make a revolution in this complex world, atleast it inspired me to start writing a letter. 🙂
Your thought your memorable feelings rely Inspired me””””!!!
Thanks RJ! I’m glad it revived good memories and motivated you to start writing again…
I’m glad to hear that Sikandar. When are you sending your next postcard or letter?
Well, in many parts, the practice of sending greeting cards
over posts for festivals still happens to a great extent.. but then yeah ,
these are readymade printed cards and no one writes regularly anymore .. In general everything old had a charm about it coz there is this extra bit of effort that
had to be done for it .. People waiting in long queues outside telephone booths
to tell their family , that they have finally got a job , or passed in their exams or just that they are keeping good health .. one can only imagine the excitement levels at the receiving end when the phone rings with a long ring telling you that it’s a STD call 🙂 ..
Tech has really stolen away everything … I guess typing mails is also
passe now .. its just typing the sms slang nowadays ..
Very well written article .. makes you remember the
excitement .. dint realize till now that its been ages since I have been near a
post office 🙂 🙂
Very true my dear, there are so many reasons to pick up up the phone or a postcard right? Thank you for your lovely thoughts….
is it free?