What Happens When We Assume the Worst of People We Love
âBefore you assume, learn. Before you judge, understand. Before you hurt, feel. Before you say, think.â ~Unknown
There we were on a Saturday afternoon doing such benign things as running errands at Costco, Trader Joes, and the post office. Excitement galore.
Yet, it would be a day I came to a major realization, understanding something I already knew in theory but wasnât putting into practice.
Hereâs the realization: Mind reading in relationships leads to confusion, resentment, frustration, and name-calling.
Iâm not talking about psychic mind reading either! Iâm referring to the kind of mind reading that you likely do every …