A Simple, Super Effective Shortcut to Loving and Respecting Yourself
âLove is loving things that sometimes you donât like.â ~Ajahn Brahm
Youâve probably heard the saying âYou canât find love until you learn to love yourself.â What this really means is that when you love yourself, youâre also fully able to accept anotherâs love for you because you know that you deserve it.
Unfortunately, some people misunderstand this saying to mean that youâre basically not worthy of love unless you love yourself. And thatâs a load of toxic rubbish.
If it were true, any number of people with trauma or certain mental illnesses would never stand a chance of finding …