Looking for Security: We Can Be Our Own Safe Places
âAll the wonders you seek are within yourself.â ~Sir Thomas Browne
I have always been the independent type. I started buying my own clothes when I was 12 with money I made from babysitting gigs. I got my first ârealâ job the summer I was 16. I went to live with my motherâs cousins (whom Iâd only met a few times) in Boston and worked in a bakery. That was a great summer. I got to explore Boston and learned how to ride the subway.
In college I spent my summers having grand adventures and saving up my money for …