From Loathing to Love: What Makes Us Feel Worthwhile
âNever be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.â ~UnknownÂ
My healing journey can be described through what I call the âself formulaâ:
Self-Doubt > Self-Loathing > Self-Destruction > Self-Awareness > Self-Love
Mine is the oldest story in the book. Adolescent angst. Mental deception. Physical revulsion. I feel fat. No, scratch that. I am fat. This girl in the mirror is ruining my life. Woe is me.
Groundbreaking drama, right? How original of me to âfeel fat.â Surely, youâve never heard that complaint before.
Except it wasnât just a complaint. I …