10 Lessons My Motherâs Death Taught Me About Healing and Happiness
âGrief, when it comes, is nothing like we expect it to be.â ~Joan Didion
This spring marked ten years since I lost my mother. One ordinary Thursday, she didnât show up to work, and my family spent a blur of days frantically hanging missing person fliers, driving all over New England, and hoping against reason for a happy outcome.
My mother was prone to frequent mood swings, but she also talked to my two older brothers and me multiple times a day, and going off the grid was completely out of character. How does someone just vanish? And why?…