7 Lessons That May Help You Find a Fulfilling Long-Term Relationship
âYou, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.â ~Buddha
âYouâre not in love with me, youâre in love with the idea of being in love.â
Ouch!
Kate (not her real name) and I had met online before Internet dating websitesâlet alone appsâwere even a thing, and ours was a long-distance relationship.
I was twenty-four, and she was twenty-three.
Initially bonding over our favorite musical artists, we soon found ourselves sharing all kinds of personal stuff with each otherâfirst over AOL Instant Messenger, and then via countless hours on the telephone.
I remember being …