Learning to Stop Clinging to People: Know That You Are Loved
âAs long as you make an identity for yourself out of pain, you cannot be free of it.â  ~Eckhart Tolle
I have a heart condition. Not one that you could see on an x-ray, or even one that you would find in a medical textbook.
For as long as I can remember, I have felt like my heart has had a gaping hole in itâand I’ve been stuffing anyone, anything into that space to try and feel a little less empty. A little less alone.
The first day of my freshman year, I met a girl.
We spent the rest …