You Donât Need to Fix Yourself to Be Healed
âGrowth begins when we begin to accept our weaknesses.â -Jean Vanier
I used to believe the word âhealedâ had a very specific meaning. In my mind, it described a state of perfection that always looked very different from the chronic health challenges I endured.
Being born with VACTERL Association, a birth disorder that causes malformations in six of the bodyâs systems, meant that I entered the world needing a lot of fixes. There were surgeries, hospitalizations, treatments, and medications aimed at perfecting something inherently imperfect.
The Search
I grew up searching. To be like everyone else. For a cure. For …