From Pain to Power: Letting Go of Approval to Love Myself
âIf you love yourself, it doesnât matter if other people like you because you donât need their approval to feel good about yourself.â ~Lori Deschene
For most of my life, I worried about what others thought. Every move I made felt like a performance for someone else. Iâd built my life on their approval.
Then came the losses. Three family members were gone in a matter of years. Each time, the grief hit like a fist to the gut.
My mother was my pillar of strength; my father, who might not have always been there for me but was still …