Surrendering Isnât Giving Up: Why We Need to Accept Whatâs Happened
âThe first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance.â ~Nathaniel Branden
I remember the last time I saw him before my world crumbled. I held up my hand with the ASL sign for âI love youâ through the window to him, as he mouthed the words back and got in his car to leave for work. I found out an hour later that heâmy fiancĂ©âhad begun cheating on me a month before he had proposed.
He never fought for me. Even during the course of our relationship, when he would run away due to his own insecurities, …