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  • February 24, 2015 at 4:07 am #73240
    Will
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    Well, this could be a great marriage, or it could be the biggest mistake of your life. And I’m not sure anyone can tell you which it is.

    Do you think there’s any way you can have a three-way, in person conversation with a negotiator of sorts (a counselor, respected family member, priest, or whoever) to really hash this out? It seems in your conversations you raise your worries and he either waves them away or agrees to “cut down a bit” and this is not doing anything to ease your worries.

    I would encourage you to really try to have a different kind of conversation about this issue, if you can make that happen somehow. One where he really hears you, and you really trust what he’s saying.

    This is a tough one. I hope it works out for the best.

    February 24, 2015 at 4:50 am #73243
    Inky
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    It could either be he really does only have a glass of wine or two at night and you’re making up something to be upset over because you’re nervous about getting married.

    Or, he has a Real Problem that’s a Deal Breaker and you’re better off single.

    I say it’s easier to start over and find someone local who doesn’t really drink at all. Long distance relationships are tough. My instinct says Not This One.

    February 24, 2015 at 5:12 pm #73264
    Sea123
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    Will and Inky, thank you both so much for your words, they’re helping me a lot.
    Best to you!

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