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  • September 6, 2014 at 2:00 am #64463
    Amna
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    Hello everyone! I have already read a big part of your topics but i couldn’t find an answear to my problems… i don’t even know if i don’t trust my boyfriend or me! At every little “mistake” he does i can’t stop thinking that he is cheatting on me or that he got enough of our relationship even though in the bottom of my heart i know he loves me so much… For example, this morning he sent me a good morning message and i responded also by message, after an hour he called me and said he got in some calls from work (on Saturday). Even now i don’t actually belive it, i’m thinking that maybe he was with a girl or something… Of course i got mad because all i wanted was him to call me for a minute when he got my message just to hear my voice, to be sweet with me. Now that i wrote that seems foolish and chilish but i was so mad and i made him mad too, i’m soo sorry… I can’t find a way to shut my mouth and overthink before i ruin his day! I really don’t know what to do to fix my problem…i meen there’s any way to keep my mouth shut before i’m sure about something? Thank you so much for reading it…

    September 6, 2014 at 5:18 am #64470
    Inky
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    Were you cheated on before? Has he ever given you reason to doubt him? Is your intuition picking up on something? Remember that our thoughts become things, so be careful you don’t “manifest” someone else into the picture! That is what you are doing, as the phantom girlfriend has already caused problems! To you she is a phantom. To him she is invisible.

    There’s been talk on the boards for A 30 Day Challenge. Why don’t you try it for this situation? Don’t talk about Trust, The Relationship, Phantom Girlfriends, etc. for 30 Days. It will be hard. Bite your tongue a lot! Sit on your hands! Hide the phone!

    But see how the energy of the relationship is after a month. I bet it will be better.

    September 6, 2014 at 6:04 am #64472
    Amna
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    No i wasnt cheated before and he didnt gave me any reason to doubt. This is the second time we try to work out, we thought that now, after a 2 year pause, we are more mature and we really really wanna be together since we haven`t found anybody else and we were thinking nonstop about each other. I am sure now that the problem is mine and i will definitely bite my tongue a lot for 30 days, i have to for the sake of love. Thank you very much !

    September 6, 2014 at 6:40 pm #64491
    Jared
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    I am having trouble with my relationship also. My girlfriend says she is not talking to other guys but I know this is wrong but I checked through her messages on facebook and I saw she has been talking to other guys behind my back. I meant her on a dating website and I have really never dated anyone else before I find myself stressing so much that I am thinking really negative thoughts. I have been to see two therapists and I just couldn’t connect with either of them. I am not sure what else to do… I am currently working full time and going to school part time. I have really no balance in my life. I don’t find loving myself anymore and I also notice that I look and feel depressed all the time.

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