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  • August 25, 2014 at 4:59 am #63885
    Inky
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    Hi

    I would lay all my cards on the table.

    At the next invite/lunch/flirt say, “I don’t want to be together if we’re not Together, you know what I’m saying? I’m being asked out/set up by other people and I want to be Clear, so there’s no undefined relationships.”

    He’ll either Confess, and you will be a couple.

    Or he’ll play it cool, in which case he knows other guys may very well be around you. And, it’s better for the work environment, by the way.

    But I warn you, him only seeing you on weekdays is a red flag. Tell him to ask you out on the weekends for a while and see what happens.

    Next time there’s a Connection, get a Commitment or a love declaration/confession before sleeping together. Otherwise it gets weird, and you deserve better.

    August 25, 2014 at 6:11 am #63888
    Elizabeth
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    Hi Inky

    Thanks for your advice, I know I do need to come clean and that’s the scary part. I don’t want to be rejected, or for it to ruin our friendship.

    I suppose we have already overstepped the mark so should be adult enough to talk about it. I am surprised by his actions as he is a very spiritual person too, and says how important it is to be truthful.

    The weekend thing is a red flag, I’ve not heard from him at all accept a very general response to a text. I guess that’s my sign!

    Thanks

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