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  • June 14, 2019 at 6:40 am #299107
    Inky
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    Hi JHK,

    Is your friend really wondering this? Why would you ask for her?

    The truth is people DO use other people as a stepping stone to move on.

    In fact, there is a saying among women that is: “The best way to move on from someone is to move under someone else”… to put it crassly.

    I for one definitely used people as warm bodies to snap out of heartbreak when I was younger.

    I just made sure none of them were in love with me.

    Best,

    Inky

    June 14, 2019 at 9:07 am #299149
    Anonymous
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    Hello Inky

    Because I care for her so I am asking it on her behalf.

    Because when a person is moving on, there is a void to fill up whatever it is, so finding someone to fill up seems to be logical but somehow the person who is filling up the void becomes a substitute. Somehow we need to be rational in this, moving on is a process and it takes time.

    Has any of them fall in love with you? How did you deal with it if there is?

    June 15, 2019 at 9:48 am #299303
    Inky
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    Hello Again!

    Well, let’s just say my rebound guys were “long weekend stands”. Those short summer vacation romances.

    One guy I think may have been falling for me, but who knows? I was healing my own heartbreak and I really didn’t want to unwittingly do that to someone else. Was always very kind to him.

    This was one summer between Junior and Senior year of college. I am mostly monogamous most of the time by nature. Culture is responsible for the rest of my monogamy. Loyal to the same person for a quarter of a century thank you very much!

    Inky

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