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  • May 1, 2019 at 9:42 am #291987
    Anne
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    So I’ve been dating this guy for four months and we were fine talking about taking vacations and flying to Missouri and meeting his family. Then all of the sudden I woke up on Monday and I’m blocked from his Instagram and my number is blocked. But my Facebook and Snapchat are still there but he’s ignoring me. He hasn’t even opened the Snapchat that I sent on Monday. His divorce is going to be finalized within 2 or 3 weeks. Which he’s been super honest and open about. Tells me every time that he has to go to out of state for court and to meet up with lawyers. We didn’t have a fight or argument. We’ve been fine and happy. So I am so confused. What should I do?

    May 1, 2019 at 9:52 am #291993
    Mark
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    Anne,

    Common wisdom is that people need to have a period to transition from one relationship before jumping into another one.  There is that period of closure, of resolution, of grieving, of healing, of being independent and self discovery before being emotionally healthy enough to start another relationship.

    My guess is that he is still in a state of emotional turmoil and not really ready as he thought he is for you.  I can relate for I thought I was emotionally ready right after my divorce but I really needed that space afterwards before finding someone else despite what I thought.

    What should you do?  If I told you that you should move on, I doubt that you really want to hear that as advice.

    Mark

    May 1, 2019 at 1:27 pm #292023
    Anonymous
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    Dear Anne:

    Maybe he panicked, maybe he is somehow back with his wife, in some way. If you would like, add any information you have about his marriage and divorce, what he shared with you, about his interactions with his estranged wife, are there children, and so forth. There may be possible answers in those details.

    anita

    May 1, 2019 at 1:42 pm #292027
    Anne
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    No, they don’t have any kids together. From what he told me she was controlling and manipulative

    May 1, 2019 at 1:46 pm #292031
    Anne
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    One time he left and went to his parents house to visit in another state, she followed him and waited outside his parents’ house to see if he went out. That’s the kind of things she would do.

    May 1, 2019 at 1:46 pm #292033
    Anonymous
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    Dear Anne:

    He told you that she was controlling and manipulative. Maybe she recently controlled him and manipulated him to  block your number and Instagram. Do you think this is a possibility?

    anita

    May 1, 2019 at 4:54 pm #292061
    Mark
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    Anne,

    I am curious what is your response to my response.

     

    Mark

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