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  • December 20, 2018 at 10:34 am #270223
    Anonymous
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    Dear  Carly:

    The medication side effects is gone by now? If so, let’s say you smell fine and  dandy, and you go to the gym, and that  guy tells others that you smell bad but when they are around you, you smell fine.  That will make that guy seem weird, as in, what is his problem?

    Anyone can say anything. Even if someone says something that was true at  one time, you don’t have to concur, to agree, to say: yes, it was true.  If the person doesn’t mean well, trying to spread gossip that can only hurt you, it is okay to say: that is a lie, it is not true, never  was.

    anita

    December 22, 2018 at 9:41 am #270431
    Inky
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    Hi Carly,

    Body issues/sounds are a fact of life. The worst is night time meetings. It’s usually the guys that make literal noises about what they had for dinner. Sometimes you know exactly what they had for dinner even if there are no noises!

    You can do a preemptive strike you know. As long as you smell like roses (or nothing), you can always point out, “Beware of the whoever smelt it dealt it guy!” Imply that if he says it’s you or someone else it’s really him!

    If it makes you feel better, one night I had kielbasa sausages as part of our dinner. I went to a meeting. At the next meeting this guy said to me very pointedly in front of everyone: “YOU ARE NOT FORGIVEN!” I gave him a blank stare, said nothing, and, never missing a meeting, always (and I mean always!) sat right next to him after that. Payback’s a b@tch, baby!

    Hold Your Head Up,

    Inky

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